So many talks around... lets see what happens...just waiting for the small pieces to be joined so that a bigger picture is visible...

It is raining continously for the past 2 days... Today morning i saw mom standing near the doorway with something in her hand... I was just looking at her to find out what is she going to do... She was throwing something out.. once she threw it there were lots of birds eating it and then i realised that she threw a handful of grains for the birds to eat thinking that they might not get food in the rain.... What a nice thought...Of course not many would not think like that... where do we have the time to think about all this? Fine.... now lets see whats happening at the place she threw the grains... I found some crows, squirrels and few small birds like sparrows.. These crows being in a bigger size were not allowing the squirrels and the smaller birds to eat the grains.... Then i realised that, not only in the human race but also in the animal and the birds kingdom do we have politics playing a major role... :D

God save everybody....

My practical session

In the morning just before leaving home, i was thinking what are the pros and cons of having a mobile and here i am at office forgetting to carry my mobile.. ;-) So today i'm going to be in the not reachable state...:-) Think God had decided that it not ncie that i only have a therotical idea of not having a mobile in hand and i should have a practical session too.. Gee :D let me see how it turns out to be???????????

crash course...

Attending crash course on life from Dad and very soon mom will start her crash course on cooking... :D

What a nice birthday i had... Was very happy :) After the birthdays which i celebrated at college, this is the first b'day when i felt so happy.... I got to spend the whole day with a very good friend of mine. It was touched when he had been waiting to wish me... :) and when i got a surprise gift... God know how he knew chocolates are my weakness. Usually its my father who gifts me with chocolates and this time he had taken the turn :-)

I did not get to meet any of my friends on this b'day except this friend of mine. It is only i who know, how much it meant when i got to spend the whole day bugging him and he had opted to listen all the crap silently. I know if it was any other day i would have had it. :P

I pray i get to fight, irritate and bug him as always :-) TOUCHWOOD!!!!

Thanks buddy!!!!

Catchy!!!

It is not who you know or what you know, but who knows what you know.

Was just browsing when came across this line... Its very much in line with a discussion i had with a friend of mine. The whole day seemed to be dull adn boring.. After i spoke to my friend my whole perspective has changed... He pointed out how exactly i need to look at issues and hwo to come out of it. I really feel very blessed to have a very good friend like him.... TOUCHWOOD!!!

High time for us to change!!!

Why should people always aspire for goals they can never reach? Is it wrong to be average and no profile?

Isnt it very much true??? As the author says we are now in "have-to " situation where we HAVE TO do everything to emerge winners in whatever we do.... How sad is it for us to live for others and not for ourselves.. Everytthing we do is not for ourselevs... we do things because we need to grow in life.. maintain status blah blah... even the same is thrust on small children... evry parent wants their child to come first in class.. is possible? children belong to different levels... some are brilliant some above average and some mediocre and few are very much below the expectation... is not in one they are brilliant in other things... we need to find the talent in each of us and work on it so that we excel.. what happens when we try to do something that we really cant do and finally when w dont achieve what we desired for..we become heart broken.. is it really necessary???

Of course we cant be satisfied and remain complacent... but we can have our own goals which is very much possible for us to achieve and really feel happy when we achieve it... Doesnt that boost us to work more? We shoudl be aware that not everybody can become Bill Gates, Einstein, Tata or Ambani.. but there is nothing wrong in working hard and achieveing things within our limits and be very happy and a successful human being...

Is it fair???

India won the T20.. isnt that just awesome... but apart from all this there is something that keeps eating my mind.... Why are people so partial???

I read an article in the THE HINDU!!! The article was about a warrent being issued against Amir Khan and 2 of the owners of the car show room at which Amir was a chief guest... A warrent is issued against them for not respecting the national flag. The national flag was not lowered by sunset and also the flag was touching the ground and this had caught their attention... How funny??? When India won the T20 worldcup our players carried the flag around the ground and then they were just falling on each other and so many flags lay on the ground.... Did not the whole world see this? They were using the flag as a shawl and the worst part one of the players had the flag upside down.... I dont mean to say that a warrent against the earlier case is worng or neither am i talking in favour of Amir Khan... Aren't our players ambassadors of our country????

I accept that they brought laurel to our country by winning the series but still my question is that why is that ppl are not kept at par??? Why is there impartial punishments??? Shouldn't everybody be treated as equals????

I have been a regular blogger... What has happenend to me??? Why did i stop writing??? I loved writing... But why did i stop writing????

enna seivadhu????

ornaal unnai naanum kaanavittaal..
en vaazhvil andha naaley illai
ornaal unnai naanum partheyvittaal..
annaalin neelam podhavillaiii..

if not we then who?????

If everyone wants to get the work done by others, then who will actually do the work???????

Behaviour

Why do people lack the basic knowledge of how to behave once we are outside our home. FIne lets take the liberty in our home for after all its our home and all are our people...but even there i wuld say we need to behave properly...we need to understadn others sentiment, emotions... we cant just talk whatever we feel under the name of being very straight forward... and when it comes to our profession we need to be all the more careful...

My mom always says behave properly when you go out for its not your two eyes which sees the world but the entire world is watching you...

Tohave misunderstandings is qute common...To err is humane but whee we generally go wrong is when we dont rewind what happened and analyse why such a thing happened? Who is wrong? And if we are wrong thwn why dont we apologise... I have seen people who remain so damn adamant not ready to accept that they are wrong and ot even ready to listen when someone tells you that you are wrong and such a behaviour is not acceptable....

one fine day when you are fed up and just think GET LOST they come and say that they wanna discuss over it whats the point???? Absolutely waste of time... The best thing for us to do would be just ignore....

These people nevr realise their mistake..They always think that they are always correct and the other person is always wrong.... Are they godly creatures????

God knows when they will change......

Where are we heading to????

Today afternoon i was waiting for my friends during lunch time...the love for reading, made me grab a book lying on the table.. was just turning the pages waiting for some news to catch my attention... an finally a news did catch my attention...actually it was a picture of a small girl may be 10 years old, sitting in a parlour getting done a pedicure... I was shocked seeing this... Where is our world heading too???? why is there so much importance for beauty which is only skin deep? the worst part, at this age???? Isn't it the age to run about and play???? An age to gain knowledge???? There is so much in this world that we need to learn and there is so much for them to experience... but why so much focus on beauty????

Is it not the parent's responsibility to bring up responsible citizens???? Isn't it their responsibility to teach them what is important???? Why is there no focus on teaching the children values, instead of all this????

God save the world....

Sila nyangalai vitu tandal vazhvadarku nyam ilaye.....

Love...

What a nice feeling it should be to be in love... where you find the sense of commitment, sharing, care and what not...

A friend of mine is in love...And her guy waited for her the whole day outside office today, just to spend some time with her when they travel back home... Some might call it stupidity, even i thought the same but then just thinking apart from being practical and also from his view only the love for her is seen in his waiting for her the whole day... TOUCHWOOD!!!!

I wish may god shower his choicest blessings on them and may their lives be filled with hapiness from all spheres.... Pray the love between them only increases by leaps and bounds always.... :-)

Why????

Why does it happen again and again with me????? They become friends with me and finally just to turn up their faces and go for no mistake of mine????

Today's fortune:

Stop searching forever, happiness is just next to you...

Where???????????? and Whattttt????

I wish....

Surprise....

I was taken by surprise when i read that mail. Could not just believe my own eyes that i had won a SPOT AWARD for my project.... I'm in cloud nine. Out of 1200 people 20 people were selected for this award and i'm one.... Finally have have reaped the fruit for all the hard work we did for this project....

Lots to write but dont know where to start it from..... :)

An art i ought to learn

For the past two days i have been doing a lot of household work and i realise how difficult it is. My God, the list keeps going on like..cleaning the vessels, washing clothes, cleanign the house.... and the list goes on and on... I wonder how my mother manages it single hand??????? And that too for years....

Hats off to all the women folk who manage such a great show.... This is an art i ought to learn and that too pretty fast.... :)

I was very happy that i had made a very good friend at office. Dont know how we became good friends... My work was at such a crisis and we all joined hands together and put up a very good show that now we have everybody praising our team. Though my friend is in a very high cader, we had a nice time off work...

Now that my project is getting over and there is so much pressure on my friend to act according to the designation at work... And my friend is under pressure to act accordingly... I know i cant blame.... Now i feel very sad about this... Kind off bugging. ...

Tamanna karte ho jin khushiyo ki,
dua hai woh khushiya apke kadmo me ho,
Khuda apko woh sab hakiquat me de,
jo kuch apke sapno me ho.

Colourful Monday!!!

Its always a black Monday for me.... For never feel like going to school/college/work after a two days holiday.. And today i have my comp off as i worked on Friday!! :-) So just enjoying my monday sitting idle and browsing.... Still at the corner of my heart missing something... the fun i have at office...

My people at office have helped me come out of the trauma i was undergoing... now i learnt that Time is the healer. Even if we are in the worst situation ever possible just need to give some time and space that things get sorted out or atleast they lose the priority it had....

ok ok let me enjoy the colourful monday i have at hand!!!! :-)

Its a very long time since i have wrote something... There are a lot of things that have happened in the mean time and i dont find time to write or blog or even come online... :-(

God give me some time so that i do something for myself.... Think its high time i do something about it....