Though our conversation stopped at this limit on that day it was a big question within me and kept me thinking more and more on it. How can your spouse mean the world to you? In that case nothing others matters is it?
One makes his or her own world till the he or she gets married and all of a sudden erase everything and make your spouse your world? How on earth is it possible? As far as i think you can make him or her very much to be a part of your world and as time moves on and as you get to know your spouse more and more the percentage of how much they mean in your world changes but still you have your own world.
Each one forms his or her own world according to his/her fancies. Some have books as part of their world.. some dance.. some music... some friends.. some cooking.. some home making... some their garden.. some cars... some bikes... or some little of everything mentioned above...They have their own personal space in which they do not let anyone step in be it anyone....
In this case how can a spouse be your world... I have a question here.. You get married and your spouse is your everything.. Fine... After some years when you have your kids aren't they part of your world too? Then how can you say spouse is your world? Why your parents who sweat so much to bring you up aren't part of your world after you get married?
So I concluded your spouse is a (significant) part of your world and not its entirety...
I posed the same question to few others too and got answers of both types...
God Bless them all!!!
2 comments:
Spouse is not the world. May be she was frustrated or angry, when you spoke to her. Never consider the words that are spoken when someone is angry
@Ranji: It was not that she was angry.. She used to tell me often... thats why.. otherwise there was nothing to be angry..:)
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